Fucking him with a big dildo is just a matter of training his ass. In a FemDom relationship, he should be getting the strap-on several times a week, alternating between smaller and larger dildos, different positions, etc. There should be a certain days/times when he always gets it, so he can come to expect it on those occasions. Make a ritual of it. But you also need to keep it spontaneous so that he also knows that you control when he gets it. Surprise him when he least expects it, like right before you go to that dinner party with friends.
After three or four months, coupled with enforced male chastity and strict orgasm control, you will see some quite dramatic changes in his attitude, all for the better. It’s a lot like breaking in a horse. It will calm him down, relax him, and take the sharp edge off of his more masculine behavior. It will enhance the more cooperative aspects of his personality. It will make him more loving, kind, worshipful, and attentive to your needs. He will eagerly go down on you three or four times a day to get his pussy fix, and be totally focused on your pleasure. Once you train him that sex and lovemaking doesn’t always necessarily involve his penis, you’ll be amazed at the changes in him. It will make him a better husband.
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When it comes to understanding what women want and need, it is certain that most men have no clue. This is especially true in our current male-centric society where women are still regarded as submissive to men and are expected to serve their man’s needs. In addition, it is still considered a taboo in our society for a man to take a submissive role in a heterosexual relationship.